Relationships: Signs of …

… A Controlling and Manipulative Romantic Relationship.

In the midst of researching information for Lasting Lifestyle Change, an idea that is in the works since becoming a certified Health Coach, I came upon the article below. It was a good read as I ate my meal. I share for the lady or male who may not know what an abusive relationship looks like. Without much dating in my life, I would only know what one looks like based on movies I’ve seen. So it’s good to know

FIVE Manipulative Relationship Signs


Keep on loving her

And may she keep on receiving your love

Consider how you entertain the beautiful, sexy, interesting lady, woman who you’ve just met or seen for the first time.

She sees you loving on your girl

Shes beautiful and

You’re taller than she’s used to being around

You’ve known her longer

She sees it as better that you stick with the one you’ve loved than chase after whatever you see is possible with her

She knew the feeling

Of being hugged,

Cuddled from the side,

Reaping attention in the midst of a crowd

Being touched…

In a loving way

In public

She misses the feeling

Has she turned into a romantic

Maybe she just has more hope and push for the couple that’s been together

She doesn’t even what to be seen as a threat

But why do women become defensive


Is this being read wrong

For she too was once defensive

But perhaps it was just love and protection for the one she loved

And behind these words

She can hide

Guess What?!

Breakups suck.

Yes. It is true.

Beware, because if it was a long relationship, I’d say memories will come out of no where at times. I read recently that memories last forever, is it true? I guess I’ll find out. Hopefully I’ll find out. Yet, it’s not up to me, it’s up to my Abba. But yeah, Breakups are no fun, even when you try to play it cool to social media. I wonder what it was like when there was NO social media.

I’d share a ton more, but I’m holding back because Just A Little Something is not my journal. Also, I do not feel comfortable sharing about how I feel right now. After all, anyone can read this blog.

Got any words about Breakups? Share ’em below.

Still Sad?

For what?

Because you wrote this August 24th 2017

What if the same thing happened to me? I loved another guy from work?

Lord his mother want me to show that I love him, but what else can I do…for this guy who is so easily able to love someone else?

Again, here goes this prayer LordπŸ˜”, if he’s not the one clear up what is going on. As sad as I am to be saying this, I’m just sad about it right now πŸ˜”. But if this is your will then okay, what is Your will, again?

β€’ Because now I’m having doubts about Brian and I marrying each other. I don’t want to be a miserable wife because of my husband’s behavior. I don’t like that his dad kisses other women on the lips. That is so crazy to me. And I do not want that kind of lifestyle or marriage. πŸ˜” Have Your way Father, have Your way Holy Trinity, help me please, help me in so many ways πŸ™ in Jesus’s name I pray. Amen.

β€’ 10:45pm watching Arrow, brushing teeth, then going to bed.

She’s not sure if this question will be answered one day, but she’s still thinking about what has happened.

Mind you, she is grateful for the time spent with this other person, but she’s still in the process of moving forward without him.

This Was…

…the second part to my future vows.

If I am reading this at our wedding, it means we made it past our struggle of January 2018. I’m at work, eating inside of a restaurant and the music playing, is the music you like to sing. Music not of our time, but the old school classic music. Right now I’m not bothered by my memory of you, because yesterday we made more peace during our visit at Baldwin Coach diner. I was laughing because of you, because of our conversation. I never thought that we would have such a situation, but I pray I’ll love you the way you want to be loved and the way God wants me to love you as my husband. I love you. (January 24th 2018 Wednesday)

It’s time to remove this note entry from my phone.

How do I move on and live a single life again?

Lord, I truly and honestly need your help. Thank You for being with me every day Father God.



Movie: Irreplaceable You

This movie. Hm, almost hits close to home. If you knew part of my story perhaps you would agree.

This movie is on Netflix. I’m not sure if it can be watched any other way. By all means, you can find out.

I finished it tonight. I watched a portion of it some days ago, and I like to finish things, so I finished it tonight.

Here’s the link to check out Irreplaceable You an original Netflix movie.